desiring to remember
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

desiring to remember

How to work with the element of heat, of fire? Heat has many degrees and dimensions: a fever, a fight or flight response, a detonated bomb, for example. Faced with literal or emotional flames, we might react with panic, fear, exhaustion, haste, denial, or detachment.

Heat can also indicate a source of light. If I steady my focus, I can feel a small, precious flame glowing in the deep, dark hearth of my belly. How can I nurture this brilliance with the utmost care?

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feeling your feelings
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

feeling your feelings

The more I exercise “feeling my feelings” in this way, the more space and flexibility, safety and trust I can find within myself. The deeper I can exhale.

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keeping grounded when things get stormy
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

keeping grounded when things get stormy

I wonder: what things or which people keep you grounded when things get stormy? Is it a tree in your neighborhood that offers you shade and silence? Is it a flower whose color sings to you? Is it a friend or lover you can call or text at a moment’s notice or who gives you the space you need? A hot herbal tisane that soothes you? A song you have on repeat while you shower? A bite of chocolate cake? A moment to scream?

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musings of the heart
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

musings of the heart

What if we imagined our hearts as fierce, radiant, and discerning rather than fragile and in need of shielding and armor? What if we listened to and moved with the rhythm of our own heartbeat? What if the strength of our pulse, our inner song, was its own form of protection? What if the flow of harmony was stronger than the stagnation of pride?

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working through jealousy
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

working through jealousy

Remembering my own humanity, beyond the jealousy “demon,” I realized that much like the courageous, tender-hearted people who ask for my support, I too, deserved to receive support.

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deeper listening, allowing things to come to light
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

deeper listening, allowing things to come to light

What do the words ‘begin, rest, healing, structure’ mean to you? What are you allowing to come to light in the next six months? What things might you be prematurely forcing into focus? Pause and listen. Where can you listen more deeply in your life? Where is there dissonance? Where is there harmony?

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shifting my relationship with anger
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

shifting my relationship with anger

What emotion are you not allowing yourself to feel? Or perhaps, what emotion do you not feel safe to feel in your body or feel safe to express with others?

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yearning for, seeking more generous possibilities
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

yearning for, seeking more generous possibilities

Boggs suggests that we need to “change the cultural images or the symbols that play such a pivotal role in molding us into who we are…Art can help us to envision the new cultural images we need to grow our souls.”

Hypnosis, while no panacea, is a highly creative practice that encourages us to use a resource and technology inherent to us all: our imagination. It offers a compassionate auditing of the beliefs, stories, and habits that may be limiting our ability to embody the change we seek. Hypnosis helps us to unearth the poetry within, revealing ideas, possibilities and solutions that might not have been as previously apparent to us.

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Letting the earth have its way
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

Letting the earth have its way

YES. Let earth have its way with me, in the most sensual ways possible. Let it turn my to-do lists and screens into flowers, fungi, roots, and cloud formations.

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Shifting, reconfiguring, reconsidering
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

Shifting, reconfiguring, reconsidering

The deeper I move into spring, the more I desire to slow down. I am shifting, reconfiguring, and reconsidering my approach to and rhythm with, well, everything — including my practice.

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Event: Finding Ground, Guided Trance with Self Love Tribute (Virtual)
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

Event: Finding Ground, Guided Trance with Self Love Tribute (Virtual)

For this month’s Finding Ground I spoke with my friend Elia Diane Fushi Bekene about their work as an artist, healing practitioner & creator of the Ancestral Healing Tarot Deck. We talked archetypes, tarot, imagination, co-creating with spirit & ancestors, finding home/belonging amid displacement and alienation, and SO much more.

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Observing our thoughts, finding space within tension
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

Observing our thoughts, finding space within tension

Where do you currently notice tension within you? What parts of you are at odds with each other? Are there automatic thoughts / beliefs charging this tension? Can you challenge these automatic thoughts? If this tension could speak, what would it share with you? What if each moment was an opportunity to pause, observe and adjust? What possibilities are you imagining? Do they restrict or nurture you?

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Softening into a different kind of rhythm
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

Softening into a different kind of rhythm

How are you easing into yourself in these moments? What sweetness do you crave? What possibilities are you envisioning? What thresholds are you seeking to cross? What rituals are you enacting at the altar of your desires?

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Learning the language of our own mysteries
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

Learning the language of our own mysteries

I want to understand myself at my most rested, relaxed state. I desire to reclaim my dreamier, starry-eyed self. I want to learn the language of my own mysteries. I wish to tune into the deeper, non-linear, subconscious, liminal parts of myself. I want to find more creative, sensual, intuitive, truthful ways to express my experiences. I want to speak for myself.

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Connecting with what’s at heart
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

Connecting with what’s at heart

The mind (the imagination) is an excellent time traveller and shapeshifter. But notice: where does that leave the body, right now? Where does that leave the heart and all that it's holding in the present?I want to offer the idea of tuning back into the heart — however this has meaning for you — to find clarity and ease in the present.

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Sitting with mental & emotional indigestion
Kristen Soller Kristen Soller

Sitting with mental & emotional indigestion

What does mental and emotional indigestion look, feel, and/or sound like within you? What might it look, feel, and/or sound like to acknowledge, sit with or be present with this discomfort? How might you invite more ease, gentleness, softness, pleasure and/or curiosity into this process?

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